Want to Get a Life? We Did!

If you would like to lead a simpler, less stressful, more meaningful and ecologically sound life, we encourage you to explore this site to discover how. We’re not selling anything or asking for donations. We’re simply offering a path to a better way of living for you, the planet and future generations. We wish you well on your personal journey in Getting a Life!

For Frugalists, Bargain Hunting is a Lifestyle

A couple of months ago we were interviewed for an online article for MSNBC.  As often happens, the slant of the finished product was off-point in our opinion. The emphasis on dumpster diving and scavenging, although catchy and even a bit humorous mostly misses the point of living simply and sustainably: to live a less-hectic, more fulfilling life while leaving a smaller footprint on the earth. See what you think. Link

Final Book Blowout !

(As of June 2008 we have about 140 copies left.)

Effective December 2004, Getting a Life went "out of print."  This means that bookstores can no longer order the book from the publisher or book distributors.  We purchased the residual stock and are offering author-signed copies to the public via this website for $5.00 each while supplies last. (Washington State residents must add 45 cents sales tax PER COPY.) Send a check for US$5.00 per copy (plus sales tax if applicable) payable to David A. Heitmiller to 1745 NW 59th St., Seattle, WA 98107. Price includes shipping to any US location.  For shipping outside the US, Contact us directly by e-mail. Sorry, we can't process credit card sales. Other options to Find the Book.

Note: Due to vacation, Book Orders received between June 30 and July 21 will not be shipped until July 22, 2008! .

An Important Website to check out: 

http://www.footprintnetwork.org/

 

Simplicity Articles

 

Book Reviews

Simplicity Lessons: A 12-Step Guide to Living Simply
By Linda Breen Pierce Reviewed by Joe Leeak

Rational Simplicity: Setting the Course to a Simpler Life    By Tim Covell Reviewed by David Heitmiller

Nothing Left Over: A Plain and Simple Life By Toinette Lippe Reviewed by Jacqueline Blix

Slow is Beautiful:New Visions of Community, Leisure and Joie de Vivre
By Cecile Andrews
Reviewed by Jonathan Freedman

The Ultimate Cheapskate by Dan Zak, The Washinton Post

More Reading recommendations from gettingalife.org

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

          

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

   

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


 

Elder Ironies
----Cutting through Quandaries with Simplicity

by Gene Sager

Aging can be difficult in any culture, but it is especially problematic in our culture today. In addition to health issues, there are explicit and implicit messages from society that even the rugged individualist cannot avoid. Some messages are confusing, even disheartening, as when ageism leads people to assume that oldsters are incompetent and have no viable role or purpose any more. A recent flurry of messages promote an alternative perspective which I call “aerobic aging”: elders are encouraged by “can do” slogans to stay active through a whirlwind of activities, including employment into very advanced ages. Pumped up with Viagra and hormones, elders are to be “on the ball” and “on the job”.

The key to the solutions, surprisingly enough, is the practice of various types of simplicity – outer and inner, material and spiritual.

Aerobic Aging

Aerobic aging – a perverse over-reaction to ageism – is known in official circles as “productive aging”. NASUA (National Association of State Units on Aging) and other organizations tout this elder lifestyle to counter ageism. But the truth is that both ageism and productive aging are caught up in the same extreme emphasis so characteristic of our culture: an obsession with youth, vigor, production, and consumption. Ageism idealizes youthful vigor by disparaging the declining years, and production aging promotes youthful vigor by trying to deny the reality of the declining years.

The concept of productive aging is gaining popularity, and the irony of this situation is extreme. We are in danger of spoiling our planet because of hyper-production and hyper-consumption, yet we urge our elders to maintain a high level of production/consumption just at the time of life when their strength and energy is on the wane. The message to our elders is, “After your 40 or 50 years of productivity, we expect more of the same!” The 24 hour syndrome symbolizes the situation: it is as though elders are encouraged to work on through the night after a long and productive day shift... Read More

My Spiritual Journey

by David Heitmiller


On September 11, 2001, like most everybody in the country, I was glued to the television set watching the devastation in New York City, Washington D.C. and Pennsylvania. What did it all mean? How could someone be so vengeful that they would take so many innocent lives? Especially in the name of religion? Some warped interpretation of religion to be sure, but still, how did we get to this point?

With these questions spinning around in my head I decided to take a break from the reporting and walk up to check my mail at the local mailbox place a few blocks away. On my way home, I was guided to not return the usual way, but to go straight where I would normally turn left and take a slightly more circuitous route. As I walked, dazed from the events of the morning, I passed an old wooden church. The structure reminded me of the Oberlin Congregational Church in Steilacoom, Washington; the church I attended as a child. I stopped for a moment in front of the building and noticed the reader board which identified it as the Interfaith Community Church. Someone had opened the doors of the small sanctuary and for some reason I was called to enter this sacred space. As I entered the double doors a bolt of lightning did not come down from the sky and strike me dead. A good sign as I had not been a churchgoer (except for weddings and funerals) for more than 35 years! As I took in the space visually, a woman greeted me and asked if I had come to pray. Somewhat embarrassed, I responded in the positive and sat down in one of the back pews, asking myself why I was there. My eye caught one of the tri-fold brochures in the pew pocket and I took it out and read about the Interfaith Community Church (ICC) and its vision of honoring all spiritual paths and teachers. It seemed that these folks were looking at the common thread in all religions and traditions instead of getting hung up on the “one right way.” “Huh, I wonder what this is all about?” I asked myself. After meditating for a few more minutes I stuffed the brochure in my pocket and headed home....Read More